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Married couple Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott where spotted together for the first time since the cheating rumors surfaced.




According to the New York Daily the two were seen leaving a Los Angeles building on Thursday. They were described to appear in good spirits.




The "90210" star has yet to address the rumors about her husband cheating. A close friend suggested that the "devastated" Spelling rather take the silent approach.




"She's flipping out and is completely devastated. Remember early last year when the tabloids wrote something [about marriage troubles] and she blasted them on her website?" said the friend. "Now she's not even doing that."




The insider told PEOPLE magazine that Spelling is more concerned about the well-being of her children, Liam, 6, Stella, 5, Hattie 2, and Finn, 15 months.




"I don't think she even knows what she's going to do right now," said the source. "But no matter what, she's staying strong for her kids. She's all about her family. She worships those kids"




At this point, the friend has no idea if Spelling will leave the marriage.




"I don't know if she's strong enough to leave him right now with everything she's going through and four young kids," said the friend. "She could stay with him or not. God only knows."




The insider insists that all Spelling can think about at the moment is keeping her family in tact.




"Not just her marriage, but all of it," said the friend. "And it's not for her business and TV career but for her family."